Practice Positive Discipline

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The Ideal

Positive Discipline - Boundaries and limit-setting are necessary as children grow. Positive, non-violent methods of discipline and loving guidance promote the development of self-control and empathy towards others.

What does the word "discipline" mean? It is derived from the word "disciple" which means one who follows his master's teachings. To discipline is to teach.
What is positive discipline? Positive discipline begins with an understanding that your long-range goal is to teach your child how to make good decisions as an older child and as an adult. They learn from following good examples and role models. Become the kind of person you want your child to be.
How does Attachment Parenting help in the discipline process? "The infant who is the product of Attachment Parenting learns that his needs will be met consistently and predictably. The child learns to trust. Trust is the basis of authority, and a trusted authority figure disciplines more effectively." - William Sears, MD
- AP builds a strong foundation. A child who is raised with love, empathy and affection learns to form a deep trust with his or her parents. A child who has a strong bond of trust is easier to discipline.
- Parents are able to empathize with the child and understand the child's point of view.
It is helpful to learn the stages of child development to understand what is normal, developmentally appropriate behavior in order for you to respond appropriately. These developmental milestones include:
- birth to 6 months
- 6 months to one year
- 1 year to 3 years
- 4-5 years
- pre-adolescent
- adolescent
- teenage years